Is masturbation healthy or not? Is it okay to masturbate?

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It’s not necessary to explain the meaning of this word. Masturbation is the what gave you your first orgasm. And also your second, third, and so on. At the same time you can regullary hear stories about the dangers of masturbation. Some people, even adults, check if there is hair growing on their palms after an act of self-love. Or go to the doctor’s every week to check if the eyesight has become bad. What is the real harm of masturbation, if any? Here we give you facts about onanism which will help to figure out, if masturbation is healthy and normal, or you better stay away from it.

The word «masturbate» comes from the Latin «manu» (hand) and «stuprare» (pollute)

The term «masturbation» took its origin from the name of the ancient shepherd Onan, who spewed his seed to the ground. This incident was mentioned in one of the biblical texts. Although there is still controversy, whether it was an interrupted sexual act or masturbation, the term took root.

Masturbation will not lead hair growing on your hands.

Practice shows that this is nothing more than a scary story for teenagers. Let us prove this by the «negative proof» method. Let’s say masturbation prompts hair growth. Then 15 year old guys would not be able to see their palms with all the hair growing on them. And men going bald would be hunched up in vain attempts to touch their head with their penis. But that’s not true.

There is no ejaculation life-limit

In the 19th century, a handful of crazy scientists estimated the ejaculation limit for each man to be 5,400 times in their entire life. But don’t grab your calculators. Fortunately, we live in the 21st century, and this theory has been fully proved false. It’s simply not possible to quick-fire your limit before turning 18 , or to postpone your sexual power till later, when you hit 80. Potency is limited by time, not  the amount of ‘shots’.

Abnormally frequent masturbation is a myth

Many experts say that there is nothing wrong  with masturbation, if you know when to stop. However, there is no clear concept of medical norm here. You only need to rely on your own needs and desires. Someone masturbates once a month, someone does it twice a day. Both cases are healthy masturbation within norm limits. From the physical point, the harm of frequent masturbation is nothing more than a myth.

Frequent masturbation affects communication with the opposite sex.

However, from the psychological point, the harm of masturbation is more prominent. It’s clear that it’s not good if everything you do is sitting at home and watching pornography, It’s clear that it’s not good if everything you do is sitting at home and watching porn, not even trying to communicate with opposite sex.

But this is more the harm of watching too much porn and other kinky materials. There, the girls are invariably submissive, leaner, busty libertines, who only dream of getting naked and starting an orgy. But everything  is different in real life, which breaks the hearts of inveterate onanists. Watching too much porn generates young men who have nothing more to say, than “Hi, I sorta like you, wanna play with my cock? «. This is the greatest harm of male masturbation.

 

Masturbation itself is unlikely to replace sex with a partner. Having played enough with a hand, it’s only a matter of time for you to set a goal to find a partner.

Another thing is that some other factor might have influenced your communication with girls, — then you only have masturbation. If nothing can be done about it, then masturbation is quite appropriate.

Masturbation is a different way of manifesting your sexuality

Many people who have regular sex with a partner, still resort to masturbation from time to time. Even satisfied with sex, they still find strength and desire for solo performance. There is nothing wrong with  it, because this is an important psychological process, I mean having sone you-time with your own fantasies, when you don’t have to worry about your  partner. Masturbation is not just a substitute for sex, or a way to spend your bachelor years. This is an independent form of sexuality.

Masturbation can also be performed with a partner. This helps you to both understand the person next to you better and find out what she(he) likes.

However speaking of masturbation is taboo for many couples. Both partners masturbate secretly from each other. If you manage to overcome this psychological barrier and open up to your partner, it will bring your relationship to a brand new level

Masturbation is a way of getting to know yourself better

Even as babies, we touched ourselves to find out how our body works, what sensations it can give you. Teenage masturbation is also more of an experiment. Masturbation can be (and sometimes  must) be used as a way of researching and revealing your own sexuality.

Male masturbation

Is useful for gaining control over sexual arousal. If you don’t test the speed limits of your hand, but take time with the process instead, and strive to gain control over your orgasm, then this habit will be transferred to sex with a partner. If your goal is always to ejaculate as soon as possible, then don’t expect an impressive results with your partner. The good news is that everything can be corrected and adjusted. Read more in our article — how to last longer in bed.

Female masturbation helps to:

    reveal their sexuality;learn the secrets of their body;learn to relax;learn how to reach orgasm.

This is not only healthy, but necessery to make your entire life better. No wonder that doctors ask you if you can reach orgasm when masturbating, if you complain of getting no satisfaction in bed. Women who experienced bringing themselves to the highest pleasure, get off with their partner more often.

But there’s strings attached:

After a long period of masturbation and sexual abstinence, women become addicted to certain stimulations. Then during sex with a man, those zones that the woman took care of herself, might not be stimulated sufficiently. It can complicate you getting an orgasm. Especially if it’s nipples and uterus masturbation. A man might not reach the uterus with his penis at regular intervals, and might not stimulate the nipples at all. Use the good old classics – clitoral and vaginal masturbation, that have no side effects to them.

 

Beautiful young couple relaxing in bed at home

The only harm of masturbation is the moral side of it

Masturbation is blamed by almost every religion as a sinful pastime. Society doesn’t welcome it too, though over 80% masturbate. Hence more than half of  onanists develop a sense of guilt, self-exclusion and all sorts of depression. There are two possible ways out: either change  your own attitude to masturbation, or stop doing it altogether.

Yes, masturbation is not a natural need. But if you decide that you need it, save yourself from unnecessary torment. This will help you to avoid both physical and moral harm after masturbation (unless you  do it in public).

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